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How Do You Know When it’s Time to Let Go

“There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.” – Unknown



This can refer to many circumstances in life. Generally, we do not like change and often want to hang on to things and people even when we shouldn’t. Letting go is a natural part of life and failing to do so can keep us from achieving our life’s purpose.

There are many indications that can act as guides to knowing when to let go of something or someone. If you are in a job that is making you increasingly unhappy, then it may well be time to move on. This is not to suggest that you should up and quit – but you should make every attempt to put your business in order so that you can make the next step.

Sometimes we find it hard to let go of a relationship, especially a marriage. While it will be emotionally taxing, if there is no hope of things getting better or your unhappiness worsens each day, let go. The right person for you may be out there waiting. And so what if there is no one right now? It really may not be so bad being by yourself for a while.

What I find extremely sad is when a relationship is over and one party keeps rehashing what the other did wrong. Worse yet, is the opposite end of the pole, when the offending party’s virtues are magnified almost to the level of sainthood. They are your ex for a reason – let go. Live your own life. Cherish the good memories and move on!

It is not always easy to let go, but sometimes we just have to. If you are a Christian you know that God will provide a way, something or someone to offer comfort and hope. If you are not, you will still find a way to pick up the pieces and go on – such is the wonder of life.
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